Giving Women A Voice
Among South Sudan’s many problems, the selling of young women as brides is one of the greatest. The culture within South Sudan is that women have only two main purposes: bearing children and taking care of the household duties. When we first entered South Sudan, we quickly saw the treatment of women and providing them aid became one of the most important items on our list for change and need. We learned that families would sell their teenage daughters to other families in exchange for livestock, money, or other things the families would negotiate upon. Some women have been sold as young as 12 years of age and forced to marry. For a woman in South Sudan, young or old, education is virtually nonexistent. The government of South Sudan charges tuition for schools, therefore most families are only willing to pay for the male’s education, either due to lack of money or simply because they feel a woman is not to be educated or considered at the same level as a man. This leaves many young women with no form of education and, as a result, they are forced into maintaining the home, cooking, cleaning, getting water from the wells, etc. Also, once a woman is sold, even at a young age, and forced into marriage, the male does not allow the “young bride” to go to school because her sole purpose, then, is to bear children. Therefore, we started: Giving Women a Voice. This cause is aimed at educating young women and paying for their first and secondary school tuition, and even on to college. For older women, who can no longer go to secondary school or college, we have started teaching trade skills so that they may have a career and provide for their families. We now have classes for textile and farming, health care, and much more. Currently, we are supporting a few women who have gone on to college and are studying to become lawyers to change the laws regarding women within South Sudan.
This project is not an easy one. We have seen young women run away from their homes and villages in order to escape a forced marriage. We have had many women come to us who have been widowed due to the on-going civil war and looking for some education so that they might provide for their many children. We have had one of our students go back to their village to visit their family after 3 years away only to then be forced into marriage and die during childbirth, being too young to bear children. Our goal is to help women like this find a better life.